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When you can't figure out
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She's upset. Or distant. Or you are. And you don't know what to say.
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She's been really distant lately and when I ask what's wrong she says "nothing" but I can tell something's off. We had a good week so I don't know what happened.
Yeah that's frustrating. The "nothing" when it's clearly something usually means she's waiting to see if you'll notice without being told.
She probably feels like something was off between you two and wants to know you sensed it too.
Try this: "I've noticed you seem a bit distant and I don't want to leave it. Can we just talk for 10 minutes tonight?"
She probably feels like something was off between you two and wants to know you sensed it too.
Try this: "I've noticed you seem a bit distant and I don't want to leave it. Can we just talk for 10 minutes tonight?"
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